Not too long ago I got offended via a group text. Sure I was tired and grumpy and just really wasn't in my right mind...which is why I should NOT have replied! I was not pleased with my response later when I really read it back and I wished at that point that IPhones had a "retract" button because everyone saw my attitude. Yikes!
I texted the person and apologized and when I saw her at church days later I personally asked for forgiveness. I felt a big weight lift off of my shoulders! She was so gracious to forgive me and we just let it all go immediately.
Forgiveness is a gift and it doesn't matter what side you are on...it is just as valuable. There are times you might not feel responsible but you give forgiveness anyway. You do it for YOU. We as Christians should be in a mindset of forgiveness...our goal is to live at a level that we are not so easily offended and let things go without much thought.
Many people seem to think that it is a sign of weakness to ask for forgiveness. On the contrary, it is a sign of strength. It is vital to relationships, particularly when there is no shared responsibility or blame. All of us have done harmful things to others; sometimes without even realizing it. Usually, these are the occasions when it is hardest to summon up the tenacity to ask for forgiveness. To be weak is to ignore the situation altogether and on the flip-side; to be a strong is to be pro-active and do something about it.
Ephesians 4:31-32 "Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you."
The most difficult seven words to say can be the most healing and life-giving to a relationship, "I was wrong. Will you forgive me?"
Adjust your crown!
Jonna
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